> Our great grandfathers were practically guaranteed to be marrying virgins

Lol yeah, and fetishes were invented in the 1950s. Very few people in history made it to marriage as virgins.

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> that would still make them a unicorn in the dating market nowadays.

Are you having trouble in the dating market? Perhaps you're frustrated by frequently meeting women who are experienced enough to recognize your inadequacy.

The solution is to improve yourself, not to shame women.

Yes, everyone is. The stats don't lie. A huge (and growing) proportion of men are even completely checking out because there just isn't really any point any more. Most are seeing the game for what it is and taking commitment off the table, dating only for casual sex. But men don't really want that, and neither do women. It's not good for anyone.

I'm tall, rich, fit and White. I've had my fair share of women in the sack. There's no shortage of promiscuous young women, but there are so few wives nowadays that it all feels rather pointless.

Yes, dating is fucked. Yes, I'm very frustrated by how "experienced" women are.

> There's no shortage of promiscuous young women, but there are so few wives nowadays that it all feels rather pointless.

Do you know the definition of "wife"? It's a married woman. There are plenty of women who are willing to be married, but one of two things is preventing that: (a) you are disqualifying them for silly and capricious reasons, or (b) they are disqualifying you because you're a misogynist who thinks you're entitled to dictate what women do with their bodies before they've even met you.

> Yes, everyone is.

Plainly false.

> I've had my fair share of women in the sack.

The more I listen to you, the more clear it is to me why you can't find a partner.

But aren't you also "count-shaming" parent comment for preferring women with specific number of previous partners? Maybe they are not the only one frustrated.

Also, in Muslim countries and regions it is typically expected for a woman to have zero previous partners to get married, or at least having relationship only within a marriage.

> But aren't you also "count-shaming" parent comment

I prefer the term "misogyny-shaming."

> Also, in Muslim countries

Really, Muslim countries? Muslim countries that are world-famous for denying women even basic legal rights? Muslim countries that treat women strictly as men's property? You're telling me that those same countries have strong cultural norms about controlling women's sexuality? I am truly shocked.