I have an older ASUS laptop from 2015 which also has (more minor than this!) ACPI state management bugs. I initially bought that machine because it was a pretty high-end and was somewhat disappointed about both the build quality and the firmware/software support.
Somehow laptop makers all write complete garbage firmware.
I'm sure dell does the same terrible handling of DGPU power and badly written ISRs that pointless raise system latency. I had shoddy crashes for months that would cause my dell laptop to BSOD and burn up in my backpack because the DGPU got stuck on I a loop during some ridiculous windows modern standby wakeup.
Only devices I've had which seem to work flawless are macbooks and the steam deck. The ability to properly suspend and wake without issue is so rare.
I'm a big fan of my Deck, but I think Steam-related software projects always have a distinctive low-level stink.
I use mine on a train that has Wi-Fi with a captive portal and attempting to join it makes the whole UI unresponsive. Using the overlay with a guide in a game always resets the scroll location. These are the kind of things I can live with, but also things I don't expect ever to be fixed unless Valve come out with some wholesale replacement for some overt new strategic goal.
Lenovos in my experience are pretty flawless in both Windows and Linux -- my current laptop is a Lenovo and sleep/wake has worked flawlessly in Debian and Windows 11. My work laptop is a HP and sleep/wake also works fine in Windows. I've had the occassional power issues (including failures to wake from sleep) with Intel MacBooks previously for both personal and work laptops.
I have a Steam Deck and love it but it still cannot suspend and wake without the audio crackling issue - other than that it is magical though. (The pause games decky plugin is a third party solution that fixes it!)
I was pretty disappointed when my work MacBook ran into the same "Bluetooth headset connected, set as audio sink, but the OS refuses to acknowledge its existence further and routes audio through the speakers" but that I've seen on every other desktop OS. I really hoped Apple would be better, considering their hardware costs more than twice as much.
I also ran into weird Wi-Fi issues that required a reboot, and getting that thing to recognize external displays without corrupting video is some kind of dark art while my Lenovo and Steam Deck work just fine with the same USB C plug.
Apple beats some brands for sure (especially the cheap "consumer" lines with a starting price lower than Apple's headphones) but their computers are hardly flawless.
I have yet to run into issues with my Steam Deck, which is very impressive, but I'm sure I'll run into an issue at some point. No computer works flawlessly.
Did you have these issues on Apple Silicon MacBooks? I ask because they seem to have very different networking and display stacks.
Macbook essentially involved Apple hardcoding 11th hour fixes selected by product code in their OS level drivers after utterly fucking up ACPI tables in ways that would make the discussed bug blush. Pretty much most of what BootCamp did on later models, and what various hackintosh "special drivers" did, was fix things like HDA tables located in completely wrong place.
Steam Deck is just... extensively tested and debugged in ways that I don't think Apple did unless they got an egg on the face in national media (remember "you're holding it wrong?")
Surface Pro 8s have a bug where the battery just gives up randomly and won't ever charge again. 2, 3,4 and 7 do not have this - one sitting on my shelf two years charged right up from 10%.
Replacing the battery costs like $200-500 because the screen likes to explode when removing it.
Lenovo docks of a specific gen will have the USB hub/billboard just crash and stop doing display port.
older Dell docks would pollute arp tables and crash switches.
Computers have always had some wild flaws, some worse than others. They are built to a price point typically and by humans under politics so the best design or parts usually don't make it -- cost and profit.