Don’t miss the nap trap days but glad you found a useful way to be productive. I ran into a similar issue and built something free & open source. Not on the App Store yet but you can try it https://testflight.apple.com/join/AkJxAbnJ. It works on iOS & iPadOS and the main difference is it’s always the herdr interface, because I always kind of liked it. I’ve been using it a while (similar tailscale set up) and it works well but needs a little polish. Hope you all enjoy it