Not to take away from your points; SciPy is now Fortran-free completely[0] (we are also requiring C++17 at most). NumPy never had it. BLAS is all C/Assembly in all optimized vendors. For LAPACK we are working on it [1].
Once there is enough pain, none of the talking points matter for any language. They don't and can't die but linger. I fear that time for C family might come in a decade which would be a shame given how magical Cpp compilers are, all that effort folks pouring in.
[0]: https://github.com/scipy/scipy/issues/18566 [1]: https://github.com/ilayn/semicolon-lapack
Thanks for the update overview, and interestingly you also mention C++17, as the version you currently care about.