In gRPC, the statuses it returns in trailers can include arbitrary details, and Google has a well-known proto for common ones in `google/rpc/error_details.proto`. One such detail is RetryInfo [1].
When we implement retries where I work, the general rule is that if a request is suitable for retry, it should include the RetryInfo in the error status and use it as the base delay for the exponential backoff. The absence of that detail means don’t retry, and we have a client interceptor that parses the response status and retries according to that logic.
1: https://github.com/googleapis/googleapis/blob/bba4c646b1f85a...