I had a 1GB Debian VM which started freezing (requiring a hard reboot) after a routine aptitude upgrade to apply security patches. It was indeed caused by low memory, but not out of memory as there was still enough swap space remaining.

The culprit turned out to be the kernel itself, and rolling back to a 6.1 series kernel made the problem go away. I see that Linus's love for vibe-coding is already paying dividends.