So someone who has suffered incurable harm and damage at the hands of health insurers is a "hate monger" while the health insurance executive prioritising their company profits over human health is just a normal person doing their normal job?
If that's true then that value system is entirely messed up and needs to be burned to the ground and rebuilt.
To paraphrase John Calvin, "The mind is a factory for rationalizations."
Once we've set ourselves up as judge; jury; and executioner, the unintended consequences abound.
Apt. And that fits both parties in this situation.