This is perpetually an issue with the whole field of AI/LLMs. The experience is so personal. Every time I talk to someone about their use of LLMs for software engineering, I'm shocked by their approaches and experiences. They say "X model keeps missing things" when I rely on it heavily for being thorough. They say "Y always gives me the best results" when I can't stand it.

People will see/think that I'm doing very well with my LLM use, and ask me what I'm doing. I tell them, they try it, then later they come back to me saying they just couldn't get it to work.

It’s really inconsistent. There are sessions where it nails everything perfectly and I leave happy. Then there are sessions where every turn it corrects itself and changes it mind. One session recently I found it funny how every single time it did this one task it tripped over itself and killed its own connection. Like 20 times. It didn’t bother me I just found it odd how despite it being noted down in its state file it kept doing it over and over like some idiot. Literally they can’t learn from their mistakes yet.