I have strong opinions on how Calc should be introduced - visually.

I think we don't cover basics like the distributive rule in school very well, and that it should be a much more nuts n bolts visual / measuring / counting experience.

Ive attempted to outline how I think this stuff should be taught, by making a video tour of the concepts - from Counting, to Distributive rule / algebra, to Quadratics then the Derivative, here :

https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEInJ-Z4qBKYxbK1Mm13g...

All of these things are covered in some great books :

  W W Sawyer Vision in Elementary Mathematics
  Algebra by Gelfand
  Calculus by Thomas
We have superb resources now like 3Blue1Brown, KhanAcademy and ArtOfProblemsolving.com / BeastAcademy .. so you _can_ get your kids a superb math education, even as many schools seemingly give up on teaching Algebra and Calculus.

Of possible interest, presents basic notions of calculus as a dialogue

Calculus Basic Concepts For High Schools by L. V. Tarasov

https://archive.org/details/LevTarasovCalculusBasicConceptsF...

> so you _can_ get your kids a superb math education

if their mother language is english. For my kids, mother language German, is much harder to consume such content. Both are doing well in math olympics and similar contests, but i still miss such evolving kind of content like 3Blue1Brown or Brilliant.com in German...

Honestly it's hard to beat how good 3Blue1Brown is at this... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WUvTyaaNkzM&list=PLZHQObOWTQ...