And where did that god come from? Primordial soup full of magic and stardust? The idea of life starting by chance is completely absurd to you but somehow a god that just came out of nowhere is perfectly reasonable.

I don’t think what you are pointing at is a real issue.

Something exists. Therefore, on of the following 3 must hold: “one or more things exists or have existed which were not a consequence of another thing existing”, “an infinite regress of things existing as a consequence of other things”, “a cycles of consequences”.

The purported absurdity of life arising by chance is not about life existing, but about it arising by chance as a consequence of other non-living things.

The idea that god coming from nothing is absurd, well, that absurdity seemingly has to apply somewhere, as all 3 cases of the trichotomy above seem around as absurd? Eventually something has to be without explanation, whether it be a thing or a chain or cycle of things.

Or, were you not aware that most people who believe that God exists believe that God is the first cause?

Apparently you weren’t aware of that, because you said something about magic and stardust??