> completely ignoring his entire argument

You didn't make an "argument." All I heard from you is whining about how you're upset that women have sex that doesn't involve you. You're allowed to be upset about that, but it's a silly thing to be upset about.

> Is that your way of shaming men for preferring virgins?

Yes, it is. Also for generally being misogynistic by holding women to a different standard that you hold yourself.

> It's in our DNA.

Lots of things in our DNA are not part of civilized society.

> The males who genuinely didn't care were killed off by natural selection.

Cool. I'll just go and have lots of children with a series of non-virgins, while you can cry yourself to sleep alone in an onanistic frenzy.