That "incidental compatibility" point is a good place to start. Unless there are serious gaps in the test suite, one can have high confidence that there's no regression from the pre-fork version in documented behavior.
What kind of migration path beyond 0 regression do you think is needed? And if the latest Zig version is no longer available, how were at least 2 forks based on it submitted to HN? And what kind of release are you expecting when the team is working to fully migrate to the port (so far it's still marked canary)? If someone's using an untested (ie. very likely unpublished) API, well it sucks to be them but they should know the risks.
And again the self-contradictory argumentation. If the userbase is as miniscule as you imagine then your criticisms are essentially meaningless. No ecosystem worth giving a migration path and nobody's N-API module breaking because of a regression, right?