I started 3 years later than you on a 4K Radio Shack computer running a 6809 8-bit CPU. I can still remember quite a few opcodes and a few months ago helped some on retrocomputing.stackexchange.com find a rather tricky 6809 assembly language bug without looking anything up. It's weird how stuff sticks around in our heads, since I haven't written any 6809 code in more than 40 years.

Despite being entirely self-taught due to never having programming classes or books, I enjoyed a long, quite successful career as a serial startup entrepreneur. In 1981 the only info for 'toy micros' was small hobby zines, local user's groups and just learning by disassembling other people's code. I started with the ROMs in the computer and learned by looking up the opcodes on a Motorola quick reference card. I got it by cold calling Motorola trying to sound like an 'adult' and the salesperson took pity on me and mailed the card for free.

I still think there's something invaluable about learning computers from first principles down to the metal.