It isn't wrong to be self-centered!

How many self-centered people have you met in your life who go, "yep, I'd call myself self-centered."

BUT if you work with people who would rather work with you in an office then you are being self-centered by putting your wishes to work remotely above their's. That is not wrong! But it is also not wrong for their wishes to include you commuting into an office.

If 2 people have different and conflicting desires, one of them is likely to end up disappointed!