with mmap you also don't have to worry about committing too much system memory, if another application needs it it will start evicting your cache.
with mmap you also don't have to worry about committing too much system memory, if another application needs it it will start evicting your cache.
You're right about that.
Linux needs a way for userspace processes to participate in the kernel's shrinker system for reclaiming memory under pressure. Watching memory PSI is too coarse. MADV_FREE is too complicated and indiscriminate. You could imagine a notification FD, but then you've just reinvented PSI. You could imagine a synchronous signal, but everyone hates signals and won't couple any new functionality to them.
Shrinker-BPF attached to a memfd perhaps? A BPF shrinker could not only choose which pages to evict in a non-stupid way, but could notify userspace in some sane manner (e.g. setting a bitmask somewhere) that it's done so.
(Zero-fill as "notification" is insane and doesn't actually work because zero is a perfectly valid value in a lot of contexts.)