> If configuration expects a regex for some reason, that's a signal that you're expected to be a programmer to use the software

1) What?

Only programmers are expected to use grep? What? That's absolute nonsense. Even programmers aren't programmers during every waking hour. My being a programmer in general doesn't make me a developer of your project, and I shouldn't have to become one by git cloning it to figure out how to write a config file.

Google Sheets and Excel have a REGEXMATCH. Do I have to be a programmer to use a spreadsheet? And even if so, do I need to guess the implementation language? No, because Google and Microsoft document their regular expression dialects (RE2 and PCRE, respectively), so you don't have to guess.

> If the software were meant to be used by people who can't [develop]...the documentation would be getting written by a non-developer

2) What?

No, that's also nonsense. Developers write programs for non-developers ALL THE TIME without some kind of technical writer intermediary. If the developer is any good, he'll realize that "regex" in documentation is ambiguous and write down the specific language he means.