It's because we are Americans yes. When I was in Europe the server would give us the handheld payment device and we select which items we ordered and then they'd charge us. The author seems to not have this, the waiter should've gone through themselves. It was simply the wrong technology, not that technology was at fault.

The place where I seen splitting the bill for a large table work the absolute best has been in the US, but it seems restaurant dependent.

the wrong technology was at fault.