> We have also so far resisted the temptation to write a DHT, opting instead to use the biggest existing DHT, bittorrent mainline, for our p2p address lookup needs. Many traditional P2P networks come with their own implementation of a DHT for discovery.

Bravo, because they always get it wrong.

DHTs used for decentralized DNS-like naming purposes have truly unique scaling requirements; you have to use a connectionless protocol (like bittorrent does) but everybody seems to be fixated on connection-oriented protocols like TCP, HTTP, and QUIC. The latter just don't work for this extreme use case.

No other use case on the entire internet requires such an extremely large out-degree for end-user nodes in the node connection graph. Allocating connection-state, even a very small amount, opens up the least-powerful nodes to easy DoS attacks. And from there it's easy for a motivated attacker to push the network away from decentralization and force it in to a highly-centralized state.