I've been wondering about this lately. As a kid, I spent hour upon hour learning about computing: typing in Basic code from a magazine into a Commodore 64, playing with music on an Atari STe, learning my way around a DOS command line, dabbling with 3D modelling... just so much stuff that my own kids would never have the patience for.
I wonder if it's just that kids today (gods that makes me sound old!) are constantly surrounded by entertaining things to do - gaming, TV/films, music, social media.
I have been shielding my 6 years old son from electronics, except 40 minutes of TV twice a week. I have no idea how to grow his patience and perseverance, though. He is like me, who doesn't have a lot of patience to begin with, so I can't really guide him through some of the situations. We have been taking him to some activities as well as reading to him but nothing really sticks.
I just hope eventually he loves reading and learns in a more traditional way instead of from laptops and pads.
We struggled to get our son into reading too, but he took straight away to comics, and from there he had a long stint with graphic novels (e.g. Percy Jackson, Artemis Fowl). You can get more mature graphic novels as they mature and progress, e.g. City of Dragons. And eventually he picked up an Alex Rider book, and hasn't stopped since. He's now how I remember myself as a kid - nose stuck in a book, completely engrossed!
I think that's actually a pretty accurate observation. I'm not a cognitive science expert, so I don't know the details, but there have been articles about 'popcorn brain' due to sustained attention issues, right? Personally, I use LLMs for coding quite often (in my environment, I'm often forced to use them). Compared to the past, when I use an LLM, the answers come immediately, so it seems harder to focus deeply than before. The generation younger than me, which is more focused on Shorts, probably has it even worse
I think it's an adaptation. Instead of living in a world with limited valuable information we're now living at the end of a firehose of never-ending near-useless information which has to be filtered at high speed.
Thats correct - and I notice that on myself. There are just much more things reachable at any point in time compared to our youth it takes real effort to focus.
I have been wondering how to train my 6-year old son and myself to increase my attention span.
Some rules are obvious -- cutoff mobiles and pads completely (he doesn't have access to them so it's for me), sit in the library and study from books (I believe this is even possible for programming topics as I can write on paper). Basically, cutting off everything electronics definitely helps -- even putting my phone in the bag improves productivity significantly.
But the problem is, my son is unruly. If I put him in the library, most likely he runs around and messes things up, which ends up we leave early without doing anything.
> But the problem is, my son is unruly. If I put him in the library, most likely he runs around and messes things up, which ends up we leave early without doing anything.
Some potential ideas to explore. Take what you want, leave what you don't.
a) if you're training for attention span, make sure the target is appropriate and also within reach of your child.
b) have a plan for the visit: when I helped at a school library, classes for kids in your kid's age group would come in, the librarian would read them a story, then the kids would look for a book, check out at the desk and read (or look at the book anyway) quietly until the end of the visit. I think we'd get about 40 minutes for a visit. Most days, at least some of the kids would be getting ansy before it was time to go.
c) Plan around your kid's activity needs. Some kids will do long still antention tasks better after doing some amount of physical activity. Some kids will do these kinds of things better after a meal. Some will do it better in the morning or the afternoon. Many kids will have a harder time if the library visit was a surprise. You know your kid, try to have your library visits when they're likely to work well. If he likes story time, try to visit when there's a story time available.
d) don't expect that you can both go to the library and work independently. You're going to the library with him, and he's going to need you to help him out for much of the time. But you might be able to find him a book together, then find you a book together, then sit down and read for a bit together.
e) if all you can get done is finding a book, no big deal. You can read at home too.
I've been wondering about this lately. As a kid, I spent hour upon hour learning about computing: typing in Basic code from a magazine into a Commodore 64, playing with music on an Atari STe, learning my way around a DOS command line, dabbling with 3D modelling... just so much stuff that my own kids would never have the patience for.
I wonder if it's just that kids today (gods that makes me sound old!) are constantly surrounded by entertaining things to do - gaming, TV/films, music, social media.
I have been shielding my 6 years old son from electronics, except 40 minutes of TV twice a week. I have no idea how to grow his patience and perseverance, though. He is like me, who doesn't have a lot of patience to begin with, so I can't really guide him through some of the situations. We have been taking him to some activities as well as reading to him but nothing really sticks.
I just hope eventually he loves reading and learns in a more traditional way instead of from laptops and pads.
6 is pretty early to enjoy reading books, so I wouldn't worry.
We struggled to get our son into reading too, but he took straight away to comics, and from there he had a long stint with graphic novels (e.g. Percy Jackson, Artemis Fowl). You can get more mature graphic novels as they mature and progress, e.g. City of Dragons. And eventually he picked up an Alex Rider book, and hasn't stopped since. He's now how I remember myself as a kid - nose stuck in a book, completely engrossed!
I think that's actually a pretty accurate observation. I'm not a cognitive science expert, so I don't know the details, but there have been articles about 'popcorn brain' due to sustained attention issues, right? Personally, I use LLMs for coding quite often (in my environment, I'm often forced to use them). Compared to the past, when I use an LLM, the answers come immediately, so it seems harder to focus deeply than before. The generation younger than me, which is more focused on Shorts, probably has it even worse
I think it's an adaptation. Instead of living in a world with limited valuable information we're now living at the end of a firehose of never-ending near-useless information which has to be filtered at high speed.
Thats correct - and I notice that on myself. There are just much more things reachable at any point in time compared to our youth it takes real effort to focus.
I have been wondering how to train my 6-year old son and myself to increase my attention span.
Some rules are obvious -- cutoff mobiles and pads completely (he doesn't have access to them so it's for me), sit in the library and study from books (I believe this is even possible for programming topics as I can write on paper). Basically, cutting off everything electronics definitely helps -- even putting my phone in the bag improves productivity significantly.
But the problem is, my son is unruly. If I put him in the library, most likely he runs around and messes things up, which ends up we leave early without doing anything.
> But the problem is, my son is unruly. If I put him in the library, most likely he runs around and messes things up, which ends up we leave early without doing anything.
Some potential ideas to explore. Take what you want, leave what you don't.
a) if you're training for attention span, make sure the target is appropriate and also within reach of your child.
b) have a plan for the visit: when I helped at a school library, classes for kids in your kid's age group would come in, the librarian would read them a story, then the kids would look for a book, check out at the desk and read (or look at the book anyway) quietly until the end of the visit. I think we'd get about 40 minutes for a visit. Most days, at least some of the kids would be getting ansy before it was time to go.
c) Plan around your kid's activity needs. Some kids will do long still antention tasks better after doing some amount of physical activity. Some kids will do these kinds of things better after a meal. Some will do it better in the morning or the afternoon. Many kids will have a harder time if the library visit was a surprise. You know your kid, try to have your library visits when they're likely to work well. If he likes story time, try to visit when there's a story time available.
d) don't expect that you can both go to the library and work independently. You're going to the library with him, and he's going to need you to help him out for much of the time. But you might be able to find him a book together, then find you a book together, then sit down and read for a bit together.
e) if all you can get done is finding a book, no big deal. You can read at home too.
If a lion can figure out how to behave in the library, so can your kid ;) https://www.michelleknudsen.com/library_lion_77788.htm