I fear the same thing, but still am unsure why or how :)
Google/Microsoft and hosting your own email is a byproduct of how difficult (socially, not technically) hosting your own email has become - mostly because SMTP protocol is inherently broken by spam and patched by social construct (trusted nodes, abuse@, 3+ DNS entries and counting, etc). Purely technical solutions, such HashCash etc, got discontinued in exchange for social ones. Central providers made (sometimes in exchange for, sometimes as excuse of, spam protection) self-hosting socially hard.
Now, I wonder if, and how, once Anthropic and OpenAI need to demonstrate profitability, could hamstring local AI. Which has been /so far/ very valuable for me in doing things that hosted providers don't want liability for, and align against (even if totally lawful and fair use!).