I still like the TP-Link E610 (flashed to OpenWRT) better. They are more compact and presumably more durable than "residential" devices. I also dislike anything that has "mesh" in its name.
To me at least, the gold standard for a large home is a standalone cable modem or ONT connected to an x86 PC that serves as home server and router, and as many ceiling mounted APs as necessary to ensure good WiFi coverage. No cloud, apps, or proprietary software anywhere. With such a networking backbone it is also easy to integrate self-hosted security cameras and other appropriately hacked IoT devices.
I use the (older, lower spec) TP-Link EAP225 with Openwrt and it's been great standalone. The single ethernet port is slightly annoying for a router, but PoE makes up for it.