But then you have constant maintenance. I prefer rolling distros, don't get me wrong. But it does mean you will get the latest of every package constantly and some cause problems.

For a box that sits in a corner doing its joband you don't want to pay attention to it's not a good choice IMO. On a desktop you want the latest of everything on and you have time to keep up it's the best.

I have an Arch server that has been online for ten years (yikes), never had any issues with it.

> never had any issues with it.

You've never NOTICED any issues. Which is far from the same claim...