You can't do it reliably without a static IP in a non residential subnet that lets you set reverse dns. If you have a static residential IP and they don't filter inbound SMTP you can make it work with a smarthost/relay like mailgun. Its not the insurmountable obstacle everyone makes it out to be, but its not going to be free unless you already have an IP that meets the criteria.
If you don't have a static IP you need will want to think about a MX relay service too ~ although mail is surprisingly tolerant of offline MX hosts if you can wait a little bit for your mail.
My approach is to run a VPS with multiple static IPs that I (using Wireguard) tunnel to a number of virtual machines I host at home on a microserver. Conversely, the virtual machines' primary view of the Internet is the opposite side of the tunnel.
I do it self-hosted on a rented VPS, which gets around the IP address issue.