My mistake was, I assumed it wouldn't be that grimey. It turns out there are all types of scams and schemes.

I had someone pretend to interview me. During the interview they used vague language about one of my more tightly licensed packages asking if they could use it. I said no but if they gave me a role I liked I could agree with it. They cut off the "interview" immediately.

I also had multiple job offers not let me fill out my prior art.

It's slimy out there. Now that people can send code into LLMs and launder it I don't think it's very hopeful for individuals to enforce a license against any company making any money, and it's not worth it if the company isn't.