It's mostly that we allow whiners to control the project and that's literally it.
This is the only actual difference between the US and other places
Take Los Angeles, the Santa Monica train slows down around a stop called farmdale because some whiner ran a bogus fear mongering campaign in 2011. I was at those meetings nobody liked this guy.
15 years later every trip, every day is still delayed because of this one man's stupid bitchfest