And those devops folks just let your single debian VM be? It sounds like you have, like many of us, an organizational/people problem, not a k8s problem.

Maybe those devops folks only pay attention to k8s clusters and you're flying under their radar with your single debian VM + Kamal. But the same thinking that results in an overtly complex, impossible to debug, expensive to run k8s cluster can absolutely result in the same using regular VMs unless, again, you are just left to your own devices because their policies don't apply to VMs, yet.

The problem usually is you're one mistake away from someone shoving their nose in it. "What are you doing again? What about HA and redundancy? slow rollout and rollback? You must have at least 3 VMs (ideally 5) and can't expose all VMs to the internet of course. You must define a virtual network with policies that we can control and no wireguard isn't approved. You must split the internet facing load balancer from the backend resources and assign different identities with proper scoping to them. Install these 4 different security scanners, these 2 log processors, this watchdog and this network monitor. Are you doing mtls between the VMs on the private network? what if there is an attacker that gains access to your network? What if your proxy is compromised? do you have visibility into all traffic on the network? everything must flow throw this appliance"