Yes, I think people who are anti squash merge are those who don't work in Github and use a patch based system or something different. If you're sending a patch for linux, yes it makes sense that you want to send one complete, well described patch. But Github's tooling is based around the squash merge. It works well and I don't know anyone in real life who has issues with it.

And to counter some specific points:

* In a github PR, you write the main commit msg and description once per PR, then you tack on as many commits as you want, and everyone knows they're all just pieces of work towards the main goal of the eventually squashed commit

* Forcing a clean up every time you make a new commit is not only annoying extra work, but it also overwrites history that might be important for the review of that PR (but not important for what ends up in main branch).

* When follow up is requested, you can just tack on new commits, and reviewers can easily see what new code was added since their last review. If you had to force overwrite your whole commit chain for the PR, this becomes very annoying and not useful to reviewers.

* In the end, squash merge means you clean up things once, instead of potentially many times

Forcing a single commit per PR is the issue imo. It's a lazy solution. Rebase locally into sensible commits that work independently and push with lease. Reviewers can reset to remote if needed.