Totally agree. I’ve see that quote used to justify wilfully ignoring basic performance techniques. Then people are surprised when the app is creaking exactly due to the lack of care taken earlier. I would tend to argue the other way most of the time: a little performance consideration goes a long way!
Maybe I’ve had an unrepresentative career, but I’ve never worked anywhere where there’s much time to fiddle with performance optimisations, let alone those that make the code/system significantly harder to understand. I expect that’s true of most people working in mainstream tech companies of the last twenty years or so. And so that quote is basically never applicable.