That's generally a bad idea. Not always, but generally.
It was a better idea when Java had the old mark and sweep collector. However, with the generational collectors (which are all Java collectors now. except for epsilon) it's more problematic. Reusing buffers and objects in those buffers will pretty much guarantees that buffer ends up in oldgen. That means to clear it out, the VM has to do more expensive collections.
The actual allocation time for most of Java's collectors is almost 0, it's a capacity check and a pointer bump in most circumstances. Giving the JVM more memory will generally solve issues with memory pressure and GC times. That's (generally) a better solution to performance problems vs doing the large buffer.
Now, that said, there certainly have been times where allocation pressure is a major problem and removing the allocation is the solution. In particular, I've found boxing to often be a major cause of performance problems.
If people didn't need to do it, they wouldn't generally do it. Not always, but generally.
People do stuff they shouldn't all the time.
For example, some code I had to clean up pretty early on in my career was a dev, for unknown reasons, reinventing the `ArrayList` and then using that invention as a set (doing deduplication by iterating over the elements and checking for duplicates). It was done in the name of performance, but it was never a slow part of the code. I replaced the whole thing with a `HashSet` and saved ~300 loc as a result.
This individual did that sort of stuff all over the code base.
Reinventing data structures poorly is very common.
Heap allocation in java is something trivial happens constantly. People typically do funky stuff with memory allocation because they have to, because the GC is causing pauses.
People avoid system allocators in C++ too, they just don't have to do it because of uncontrollable pauses.