You can use GrapheneOS with the Google Pixel lineup, or in particular the Pixel 10 Pro XL [1].
GrapheneOS supports Android's Quick Share, which (on the Pixel 10 family) is compatible with AirDrop [2].
[1] https://grapheneos.org/faq#supported-devices
[2] https://blog.google/products-and-platforms/platforms/android...
What if I don't want to give money to Google at all?
Then GrapheneOS is currently not an option, however they are working with another OEM to have non-Google phones available with GrapheneOS by next year [1].
[1] https://grapheneos.social/@GrapheneOS/115987006592879172