Fair concern, but this has been quietly production-stable on GCP and Azure since 2017 — that's 8+ years at cloud scale. The LKML debates you're referencing are mostly about edge cases in exotic VMX features (nested APIC virtualization, SGX passthrough), not the core nesting path that workloads like Firecracker and Kata actually exercise.
The more interesting signal is that AWS is restricting this to 8th-gen Intel instances only (c8i/m8i/r8i). They're likely leveraging specific microarchitectural improvements in those chips for VMCS shadowing — picking the hardware generation where they can guarantee their reliability bar rather than enabling it broadly and dealing with errata on older silicon. That's actually the careful engineering approach you'd want from a cloud provider.