Yes, except there seems to be a move on the best words from SHALL to MUST and from SHOULD to MAY. IANAL but I recall reading this in e.g. legal language guidance sites.

RFC language is expmicltly defined in 2119[0]. Any other interpretation is incorrect.

[0] https://www.rfc-editor.org/rfc/rfc2119

Thank you for that. So should is optional, people!

Pulling exact quotes out, SHOULD means "there may exist valid reasons in particular circumstances to ignore a particular item" while MAY means "an item is truly optional."

I don't think this can be interpreted as simply "should is optional".

I think that is a bit to easy. MAY is described ar optional.

SHOULD - Should really be there. It's not MUST, you can ignore it but do not come crying if your email is not delivered to some of your customers ! you should have though about that before.

> So should is optional, people!

Only once you have satisfied:

> but the full implications must be understood and carefully weighed before choosing a different course.

In other words, you better have a damn good reason for deciding not to do it.

And (possibly even more to the point), you must decide not to do it, rather than simply throwing code at the wall until most emails make it through unscathed.