Happily, the meanings in RFCs are clearly specified, see https://www.rfc-editor.org/rfc/rfc2119.

Note "the full implications must be understood and carefully weighed before choosing a different course". Gmail and the other big hosters have full-time spam teams who spend a lot of time weighing implications, so I assume the implications of this was weighed.

And EVERY rfc has a paragraph talking about rfc 2119 in the preamble.

I guess that's why nobody reads it. /s