I feel a lot of confusion at which coding harness is best and what options to use. tbh I have mostly used standard aider and I don't know what the consensus is on this tool.

I feel I want to write my own and that maybe in the future a lot of developers will have custom harnesses and have highly customized versions as each user of these models wants to use these things in a way that's unique to their brain, much like how emacs is so great for the customization but one persons emacs config is often not what another wants or only wants a subset and then write their own features.

As an aside what is the feeling on all the various ai coding tools, does aider suck is that aider-ce/cecli are better or are the bespoke tools for each model like claudeCode and such better.