> I doubt anyone could make a reply to this comment that would make me feel any better about it.

I am also a complex number skeptic. The position I've landed on is this.

1) complex numbers are probably used for far more purposes across math than they "ought" to be, because people don't have the toolbox to talk about geometry on R^2 but they do know C so they just use C. In particular, many of the interesting things about complex analysis are probably just the n=2 case of more general constructions that can be done by locating R inside of larger-dimensional algebras.

2) The C that shows up in quantum mechanics is likely an example of this--it's a case of physics having a a circular symmetry embedded in it (the phase of the wave functions) and everyone getting attached to their favorite way of writing it. (Ish. I'm not sure how the square the fact that wave functions add in superposition. but anyway it's not going to be like "physics NEEDS C", but rather, physics uses C because C models the algebra of the thing physics is describing.

3) C is definitely intrinsic in a certain sense: once you have polynomials in R, a natural thing to do is to add a sqrt(-1). This is not all that different conceptually from adding sqrt(2), and likely any aliens we ever run into will also have done the same thing.