Anyone giving you sincere advice will get downvoted and that will keep in ignorance, so I'll bite the bullet because it is more important you understand what can be happening.

There are a lot of cheap immigrants (mostly from India) that are super-motivated and more aggressive than you to find a job. This happens because of the open doors policy of previous years and now they are on a bad visa situation, likely got fired from other large companies and now need to send money back home or get settled. So competition is fierce, has more experience and cheaper than you.

Most women like yourself never went beyond the minimum curriculum at MIT. Never applied for mentorship from professors and specialization on relevant tech topics.

I'm also guessing you have never developed open source projects on your own and the CV has literally zero practical experience. You had a year, and yet remain without practical experience on open source projects. Guys have an advantage over you because they tend to write tools and tech even (and mostly) whenever they have free time. Maybe software just isn't the thing for you, especially when times are hard and engineers are more needed than managers.

Does this mean you'll never get out of there?

Nope. Join the weekly/monthly meetups in the bigger cities next to you. The key thing is networking when the CV/experience doesn't do the talking for you. As others mentioned here: either create a startup or join one that exists. You need to show initiative, energy and if possible, passion, for topics that you choose in tech.

As others also said: maybe tech isn't the thing for you. Try to ask yourself what is really in deep of your heart that you want to do. Just note that there are computers and tech everywhere, so even on the topics you love best might be a good chance that you find an area where your tech knowledge can be useful. What matters is that you do it motivated. Even if there is no salary involved, do it as a volunteer, offer to be there for two months so they see how it goes. Other here also volunteered to see your CV and provide honest advice, they will also help.

Depression on this situation needs to be kept at distance. You need to remember yourself through actions that you have value, that you know how to do things. Good luck, and all the best.