I'm hoping something like this takes off on FreeBSD: https://github.com/gershwin-desktop/gershwin-desktop

I've only owned macbook laptops but have run Linux at work since 2002. The lack of cohesion and non-stop changes in Linux is just as tiring and this MacOS Tahoe stuff. Gnome 3 cared just as little for users. FreeBSD + KDE Plasma is pretty good now, but lacks feeling and design.

that looks like xfce?