Its not a great update and hopefully with Dye out they will make some changes, but personally I don't have this issue.

Do you mean you don't observe the same thing? Or that it doesn't cause you difficulty?

I observe the same thing but it doesn't cause me difficulty. I think I more or less aim for the edge, vs the inside or outside.

Also, the cursor changes

Most of the Tahoe and Liquid Glass related gripes are overstated or sometimes just against the idea of changing anything well-established

I disagree. I generally don't get too upset by UI changes - having been programming since before Windows I've seen many of them - but LG is a loser.

I upgraded my mac to Tahoe and I don't like any change to the UI that I have noticed.

I upgraded my phone the other day, thinking it was just an update to whatever it already had, and ended up with LG on there and it is a disaster. I enabled the 'more opaque' feature and it did almost nothing.

LG is an awful experiment IMO. I'd put it at worse than Vista (which I skipped) and Gnome 3 which didn't bother me because I don't expect anything from linux desktops. I also skipped Windows 8 so not sure about the ranking there. But I'd say it's that level of disaster.

From a company that spent decades harping on about taste, usability, human interface guidelines etc, it’s a train wreck. If Microsoft did it you’d just shrug your shoulders and carry on with life because good taste and usability was never a core promise.