> Bus width is 64 vs 384.

The bus width is the number of channels. They don't call them channels when they're soldered but 384 is already the equivalent of 6. The premise is that you would have more. Dual socket Epyc systems already have 24 channels (12 channels per socket). It costs money but so does 256GB of GDDR.

> Look at modern AM5 struggling to boot at over 6000 with more than two sticks.

The relevant number for this is the number of sticks per channel. With 16 channels and 64GB sticks you could have 1TB of RAM with only one stick per channel. Use CAMM2 instead of DIMMs and you get the same speed and capacity from 8 slots.