Notice how I never said what you are disagreeing with, and if you read what I said, your question is answered?

I had no question. You also do not know what historical stoicism as a philosophy and behavior was, but I assumed actual historical stoicism was not the point.

My point was, you made up "historic stoic persona" based on conservative ideology. Not as something that actually characterized historical manhood.

Haha, Marcus Aurelis is very disappointed.

Tell me what I made up, eh?

The point of stoicism is to make your own decisions and be able to chart your own life by following principles you believe are just - in large part by avoiding being controlled by emotional reactivity.

Not to cut out emotions all together, but to not be driven by them. Especially when someone is trying to induce them in you.

This often comes across as ‘stone faced in the face of extreme emotion’ - but doesn’t mean the person isn’t feeling them. Rather that they are not letting themselves be driven by or controlled by them in the moment, if they do not serve a useful purpose for them.