Who said she was forced, and why the personal attack?

> still has to work 24 hour shifts with no sleep

Reads like being more or less forced to me, it doesn't to you?

> and why the personal attack?

Not at all my intention! It's a genuine question, which I would ask myself too were I in OP's shoes

I doubt her spouse makes her be a doctor. Most people who go through premed and medical school are pretty dedicated and driven on their own. This is a corporate vs labor issue, and likely not a domestic issue. I’m sure he dislikes it greatly, too.

It's not so much "forced", as "given an offer they can't refuse".