Honestly it feels weird to call these features "memory". I think it just confuses users and over encourages inappropriate anthropomorphism. It's not like they're fine tuning or building LoRAs. Feels more appropriate to call them "project notes".

And I agree with your overall point. I wish there was a lot more clarity too. Like is info from my other chats infecting my current one? Sometimes it seems that way. And why can't I switch to a chat with a standard system prompt? Incognito isn't shareable nor can I maintain a history. I'm all for this project notes thing but I'd love to have way more control over it. Really what makes it hard to wrangle is that I don't know what's being pulled into context or not. That's the most important thing with these tools.