I also started self-hosting more and more. But instead of making services available on the internet/intranet (e.g. VPS reverse proxy/tailscale), I'm binding them to localhost and using connet [1] (cloud or self-host [2]) to cast these locally on my on my PC/phone (when I need them). These include my NAS and Syncthing instance running on my NAS and I'm looking to add more.