The one thing I don't miss about Rails is constantly feeling like I'm doing it wrong. I had a 'discussion' at RailsConf when I was told I should stop using C Ruby and switch to JRuby because it's so much better. And that's the right way to do it.

But I couldn't get JRuby to package reliably. I'd fix the issues, it would work for a while, and then something would change.

Oh... because I wasn't doing it right. I have to rework a bunch of dependencies. And after a while, it breaks again. Why? Oh... I wasn't doing it right, I should be using this middleware instead...

So I said I'm done mucking around with JRuby. When I said this, I was told at RailsConf that was doing it wrong, and by implication, irresponsible with my clients' applications. That was I setting everything up for failure. Yet the applications that were working just fine on C Ruby. (I don't really hear much about JRuby any more - but I haven't been part of that world since George "strategery" Bush was president.)

And this was the shtick for conference speakers and YouTubers. You're doing it wrong. Do it this way to do it right. You're using Controllers wrong. They should be fat. They should be thin. They should be big boned. You should never use models. You should only use models. You should sit on two chairs and pair program with yourself when you develop. Only drink water when writing tests.... etc. etc. etc.

This left a bad taste in my mouth in what otherwise was a great community. I felt like a lot of the community wanted to do build great applications, quickly, cost-effectively, and with high quality. But that same impetus could be manipulated by folks in a way that's unhelpful. THAT part of Ruby I don't miss. RailsConf in Portland, eating VooDoo doughnuts, talking shop with other folks? That I miss.