It’s completely true that the system we use today—where a few big companies hold all of our private information in one place—is a bad model. It’s risky for security, and it means you have no real power or ownership over your own data.
The good news is that we don’t have to wonder if a better way is possible. The technology is already here! Projects like Solid (Pods) and AT Protocol (PDS) have proven we can separate your information from the applications you use. You can put your data into your own secure digital "locker" or vault.
The difficulty now is not the technology, but getting people to actually use it:
1- It’s Too Hard to Use: Setting up and managing your personal data locker is currently as complicated as managing a super-secret password for a crypto account. For everyone to adopt it, it needs to be way simpler than just clicking "Log in with Google." If it’s too much work for regular people, it will fail.
2- Big Companies Don't Want to Change (The Incentive Problem): The biggest tech companies make billions by collecting and using your data. They have no reason to switch to a system where they have to ask permission to use data they don't own, unless a major law forces them to, or a new competitor steals their users.
3- Privacy Isn't Enough (The Benefit Problem): Most people won't switch just for "privacy." The new system must offer clear, positive benefits, like letting you move all your friends to a new social app instantly, or securely filling out long forms with a single click from your data locker.
The key to success is building user-friendly tools that hide all the complexity and make this new, secure way of managing data simple for everyone.