I recommend taking your own advice on that one, specifically the part about reframing efforts of strangers.
I take your views to be exactly as you state them.
Then there is no need to reframe anything so you might as well get to the actual disagreement you have w/ them.
I take your views to be exactly as you state them.
Then there is no need to reframe anything so you might as well get to the actual disagreement you have w/ them.