I’m very much the same, I wish I had the ability to chip away at projects over a long time span, usually the most I can muster is a few weeks. I continually wonder if I have ADHD. It’s too much of a pain to find out, so I guess I’ll never know and just have to deal with it.

You can be at peace with your approach to life, and also understand that others do things differently, with or without a diagnosis.