I do agree with the common refrain, actually, and disagree with the idea that work can be so big and complex that it has to be in one pull request.

> A big queue of PR's for reviewers to review

Yes, yes please. When each one is small and understandable, reviewers better understand the changes, so quality goes up. Also, when priorities change and the team has to work on something else, they can stop in the middle, and at least some of the benefits from the changes have been merged.

The PR train doesn't need to be dumped out in one go. It can come one at a time, each one with context around why it's there and where it fits into the grander plan.

> The [totality] of the feature is split across multiple change sets, increasing cognitive load (coherence is lost)

A primary goal of code review is to build up the mental map of the feature in the reviewers' brains. I argue it's better for that to be constructed over time, piece by piece. The immediate cognitive load for each pull request is lower, and over time, the brain makes the connections to understand the bigger picture.

They'll rarely achieve the same understanding of the feature that you have, you who created and built it. This is whether they get the whole shebang at once or piecemeal. That's OK, though. Review is about reducing risk, not eliminating it.

> You end up doing work on branches of branches, and end up either having to become a rebase ninja or having tons of conflicts as each PR gets merged underneath you

I've learned not to charge too far ahead with feature work, because it does get harder to manage the farther you venture from the trunk. You will get conflicts. Saving up all the changes into one big hunk doesn't fix that.

A big benefit of trunk-based development, though, is that you're frequently merging back into the mainline, so all these problems shrink down. The way to do that is with lots of small changes.

One last thing: It is definitely more work, for you as the author, to split up a large set of changes into reviewable pieces. It is absolutely worth it, though. You get better quality reviews; you buy the ability to deprioritize at any time and come back later; most importantly for me, you grasp more about what you made during the effort. If you struggle to break up a big set of changes into pieces that others can understand, there's a good chance it has deeper problems, and you'll want to work those out before presenting them to your coworkers.