You also need tools that support the workflow. I love small self-explanatory commits. In git, it's easy to do. Recently I switched to a Perforce organization and it's a disaster. P4 doesn't support stacked CLs and it dramatically hurts engineering quality. Everyone lands mega-CLs because it's the only supported workflow.
Have you tried using the git adapter to Perforce backend [1]? It should let you avoid mega-CLs. When Google used to use Perforce, an internal somewhat similar but a bit more advanced tool git5 was very popular.
[1] https://git-scm.com/docs/git-p4
The adapter breaks down on sufficiently massive repos. Unfortunately, there's a reason Perforce is still in use despite no one liking it. Git scales via sub-repos, but those have their own drawbacks, and no one is enthusiastic enough about this to champion it.
With the right workspace mapping, you can pull in just part of the depot, which makes the repo size a lot more manageable.
Sorry to hear about the use of Perforce. Even the dinosaur of a company I used to work at shifted away.
(granted, I know VCS like it are still good for assets)