It seems like those comfy US coastal salaries usually buy you either:

- A largish house in the subs, and a nice car that you'll be seeing a lot of, unfortunately.

- A tiny house closer to work.

While European SWE salaries are significantly lower, they can generally buy you a decent house close to work.

For a period in my 20’s when I wasn’t well paid I lived in some nice places car free (San Luis Obispo, Santa Monica, Berkeley) but this was when rent was cheap and I didn’t have a family.

Even in Europe it’s hard to find a decent affordable home where you can raise a couple kids in places you can live without a car.

In which European city is this true? I can't think of any. Certainly not London/Paris/Amsterdam/Munich/Warsaw.

For comparison, Amsterdam's price per square meter for apartments is some 30% higher than in Seattle and my big tech company that offers total compensation around $500k/yr for L5 in Seattle pays low $200s (converted to USD) in Amsterdam. The only colleagues I know who live in a single family home within reasonable biking distance are late career (L6/L7) American expats.

In any European city, that has a decent tech job market, owning a house (even a small one by American standards) in walking/biking distance of the office means you're rich rich.

Really interesting, can you share the salaries, cost, and size of three high-paying jobs in: NYC, London, and Paris? Curious about the big houses you're getting for cheap in London and Paris!

They didn’t say that?